If your goal is to get your ex wife back then you have to admit something that you may not want to. You may have to admit youre weak. Will you have to admit it to her? That depends on how she views you at the moment, how you have come across in the past and how she will view you in the future. The trick to get your ex wife back is to let her know that you have changed and that you are, can be, and will be the one that she wants. If you are going to go through with the effort to get my ex back, make sure that the change in you is real.